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Are DCP Really So Naive Or Do They Honestly Not Know Behavior Is Bad?
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Kaddidle Care
06:14 PM 04-14-2012
It's very simple - charge them for your time.
Originally Posted by
momofboys
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DCF 1 changed hours Sunday evening - told me they were coming at 9 am on Monday only to call me Mon morning at 6:35 am asking if the kids could come earlier around 7:30 (with less than an hour's notice - I was in bed asleep!)
$20.00 Wake Up Early Fee
DCF 1 - was to be here to pick up at 3:35 to get SA chil d- mom knows what time the bus arrives & was supposed to be here then - rather she showed up 1/2 hr after bus' drop-off time & she was off all afternoon so no reason to be late.
Charge for that 1/2 an hour.
DCF 2 - DCD is in school & is supposed to drop off kids at noon on Thursdays. They are a newer family (only with me 4 weeks so far). Each day that he is the drop-off person he has arrived earlier & earlier. Not usually a problem but I based their pay on the drop off being noon & there are some days I may not be home until a few minutes before noon (I have no other family in care that day). Week 1 he dropped off at 11:45, week 2 at 11:35 & this week he dropped off at 11:20!!!! I did say something that he needed to let me know if he was coming earlier as I may not be home if he comes before his drop-off time. It just makes me feel as if they don't respect my time.
Again, charge for the extra time.
DCF2 - DCD is done with classes on Fri at 11:00 & is to be at my home by 12:00 to get kids. Yesterday he arrived at 12:20 & I was not angry but not happy - he told me he was late b/c he went home first to make himself a sandwich!
Advise him that your late pick up fee is $1.00 per minute but because it's his first time you'll only charge him $5.00.
These are only stories from this week - so I am sure you can figure out that each week is a mess. How do I regain the respect without being a B#tch?! What's even harder for me is I can't imagine treating a caregiver in these ways. what is wrong with people?
Added this: Have you ever confronted a parent & let them know you have felt hurt by the way they treat you & disrespect you & your time?
Never confront, just add it to their bill with a detailed explanation of the time discrepancies. Looks like you'll be making at least $35.00 more this week. Feel better?
My Dad has a saying: "You can only let them walk on you if you lie down and let them."
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